DS (just turned 6) behaviour is seriously getting out of hand. He has never been like this before! I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
Just to give you a background, DS has a severe speech and language disorder (of a three year old) and dyspraxia. I know DS is frustrated etc, but the hitting is something that I can't tolerate. I believe that if I don't do something now, also the fact due to his severe SLCN, his behaviour get's worse.
DS has started to hit me in public, if I tell him to either "stop doing something", "he can't have that"..etc. When he hits me, I'll be down his level and I will say "NO, hitting", or I will take away something from him (e.g., a toy he is holding). DS always screams blue murder when I "punish" him, but I know it has to be done.
I just feel so helpless, like today, DS kicked me because I told him that he couldn't buy the ice-cream in the shop. I took him out of the shop, told him sternly " You do not hit me..". He had his favourite milkshake on him, I took this off from him due to the fact he was kicked me . He literally was screaming, crying, whilst we were walking home.
I just don't know what I'm doing wrong, am I in the wrong? It's just getting out of hand that I can't even control DS anymore.
Maybe I am just a shit parent.
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How do you punish a child right then, if they hit you in public?
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Notgivingin789 · 10/01/2016 18:34
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