Just after some advice really, DS behaviour is seriously concerning me, he has frequent (2/3 times daily) violent /angry outbursts which 99% of the time results in him lashing out at me. He has really hurt me several times, drawing blood when scratching me, punching, pulling my hair etc. These outbursts are usually as a result of us asking him to carry out a simple task; washing hands before dinner / getting dressed / brushing teeth!!
I just don't know how to deal with it we have tried everything we can think of, talking about our feelings, counting to 10 when upset or angry, sticker charts, rewards, toy removal for bad behaviour, time out (doesn't stay still for longer than 1 second so that didn't work! ), losing privaliges such as screen time and I always seem to end up shouting & in tears as I am just so frustrated by it all.
He gets plenty of exercise outside and lots of attention & playtime (he is an only). First day back at school today and he ran off in the other direction so I ran after him and literally had to carry him home in tears while he punched and kicked me as he wanted to 'walk the long way'! This carried on for another half an hour once home, screaming and shouting and punching I am sure our neighbours hate living next door to us!
Other than this he is a beautiful caring boy and people will look at me like if I tell them what he is like at home. Sorry for the long post, just need to vent and ask if anyone else is going through this and what I can do to help him deal with these angry outbursts as it is really making me miserable!
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4.5 y/o DS behaviour out of control
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mummybear1985 · 05/01/2016 17:01
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