my 16 month old is still not able to walk unassisted. he has only just started walking if we hold his hand. we try our best to help him practice and take him to the park everyday as walking outside seems to be more of a motivator than when in our house. He just doesnt really seem to be interested in walking when we are at home and prefers to crawl. I take him to soft play as much as possible to help him strengthen his legs, but again he prefers to crawl and will only take 3 or 4 unassisted steps once or twice and then be done with it.
I know 16 months is well within the range medically, but this is getting so frustrating. He is quite tall and is about the same height as some 2 year olds so I'm getting strange stares from other parents when I go to soft play. I'm not sure what else to do to encourage him to walk?
He has also started refusing food. literally only ate breadsticks and yoghurt in addition to milk last 3 days. I thought it was texture and so started pureeing again but that doesnt seem to work. Overall, i'm worried i'm just not doing enough as a mum to help with his development. In summary, i'm concerned about
- he cant really self-feed well. fine with finger food (breadsticks/puffs) but cant scoop from bowl with a spoon. i have to help him load it.
- he cant really eat food unless mashed down. Except for breadsticks!
- his speech is ok (about 20 words, can fill in A is for Apple etc) but refuses to say yes or no and to point to show me he recognises body parts. he also refuses to wave.
- not interested in shape sorters or stackers. literally just takes the individual pieces and throws them about.
-refuses to hold his sippy cup unless he is really really thirsty. if i leave it on his tray he just plays with it and then tosses it off. endlessly frustrating for me.
I'm just really really worried about his development he seems to be delayed? THis is my first child so I have no real comparison except for those milestones charts :( Anyone can help please?