Hi
DS has always had issues with food since birth but we'd finally got to a stage of him eating certain staples: cheesy pasta, cereal, fruit etc. All foods either carb heavy and bland or sweet but just happy he was eating, to be honest.
He has always gone through periods of not eating. One week he'll just decide that he's not eating what's on offer and he ends up living off of toast and yogurt.
For the last two weeks he has been on total hunger strike with just me. He'll eat for everyone else-DH, his grandparents, nursery-and he'll eat well (cereal/soup/pasta/noodles/chicken/ rice/fish fingers etc.) but the second I'm in the room he just won't eat. He's definitely hungry as he asks for sweet things (thanks, granny) and cries when he's refused. Eventually end up binning my lovingly prepared bolongnaise/pasta/chicken and he has a slice of toast before bed while watching in the night garden.
Im doing my best to just ignore and am now refusing to offer alternatives-if he's hungry he can eat what's in front of him (things I KNOW he likes as his list is so limited in the first place) or he can have toast before bed. I'd cut this out too but the not eating extends to all meals so I have to get something in him.
Any suggestions? The wasting of food is really irritating but I'm more concerned that this is a power play, leading to an even further diminished list of food he'll take. It's taken us to now to get a very small (and not always healthy) list and I don't want to regress further.
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23mo eating for everyone except me
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Cake0rdeath · 28/12/2015 20:13
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