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Unusual change in behaviour

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P0cahontas Mon 07-Dec-15 18:55:09

Title says it all really.

He is normally very well behaved at school and at home, but for the past week it is like he is a different child.

Not doing what he is told at home and at school, answering back, very grumpy and stroppy.

I keep asking him why is he misbehaving and not doing as he is told and his response every time is "because I don't like you"

I really don't know what approach to take to his bad behaviour.

Can I please please get some advice?

ALaughAMinute Mon 07-Dec-15 19:04:22

Hormones? Something troubling him at home or at school?

How old is he?

P0cahontas Mon 07-Dec-15 19:11:58

He is 7 and I don't think anything is troubling him, we have/had a wonderful mother and son relationship he tells/told me everything.

Everyday when I collect him from school I ask him 'did anyone do or say anything that made you feel upset'

I really don't know what to tackle this, he won't come near me. I am a single parent he goes to his dad's every weekend, I've asked him has he seen a change in his behaviour and he hasn't, I just want this to stop and go back to normal.

Ferguson Mon 07-Dec-15 23:02:12

He might be getting fed up with you continually asking him. Lay off him, for a while.

ImperialBlether Mon 07-Dec-15 23:04:36

I think he's probably just really tired. Perhaps start the going to bed process a bit earlier? Is he worse when he's hungry?

P0cahontas Tue 08-Dec-15 06:10:13

Imperial he is a good refuser tears at the table every morning and evening. I think everything is ok now because he came in my room in the middle of the night for a cuddle so let's hope he is back to his usual self when he wakes up.

amarmai Mon 14-Dec-15 03:29:13

An unusual change in behaviour is caused by something. I'd ask to talk to his teacher and see what is going on at school with work , other cc, He doesn't mean it when he says he doesn't like you. But there is something /someone that he doesn't like. Would he respond to you telling him stories about things/people who you do not like? You can make them fictional , but real might work better. Would it be helpful to ask his father to chat with him , or grandparents, or---?Ask him what the two of you could do to help him feel better . Perhaps there is some activity that he would like to go to.

Witchend Mon 14-Dec-15 06:49:02

Is it just this week you're asking him if someone's upset his at school?
Because it seems a strange thing to greet him with. Most people would only ask that if there were issues.

ApologiesToInsectLife Mon 14-Dec-15 06:53:14

My 7 yo ds has been grumpy and stroppy recently. Basically he's tired, had loads of colds/coughs and needs some time off school! Could it just be that?

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