Hi, hoping for some advice.
My toddler has started having major tantrums and fighting every time we try and get him dressed or undressed. He used to occasionally refuse but be okay most times but now every time is a battle even just putting shoes on and can take an hour to get three items of clothes on. Had an hours tantrum last night because he didn't want to put his pyjamas on for bed. I let him sleep in a t shirt and trousers but he also wanted his shoes and winter coat!
I have tried;
Distracting him with toys or tv,
Leaving it and trying later,
Letting him pick what to wear (really isn't interested), or what to take off first,
Trying to get him to do it himself,
Telling him clearly as an order and telling him he is naughty when he refuses,
I have also just forced him to dress or undress but he fights every step of the way and we both end up upset and angry so just doesn't feel like a solution.
Really at the end of my tether. It all seems to have really escalated the last few weeks. Before that one of the above techniques would work. It's making me dread attempting to leave the house or get him ready for bed. It's not just dressing he hates it's nappies or doing anything he isn't interested in.
Anyone had this? Is it a case of do what we always did and ride it out or start again with a new technique?
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tips for getting a toddler dressed without tantrums
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kate1516 · 31/10/2015 08:10
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