he was supposed to be in taekwondo from 5 to 6. the lessons take place at school, after regular classes finish at 4:40. pupils hang out and have some snacks until different lessons -taekwondo, music, fencing, football etc- start. my son chose taekwondo in first grade and after a few lessons didn't want to go anymore. I pressed -he had behavioural issues at the moment, I thought lessons would help- and he started to like it again. then he got bored again and wanted to take music lessons. I thought that was not a good idea and told him to make the best of music lessons during regular school hours.
anyway, I arrived at school today and he wasn't where he was supossed to be. I then found out that he had been to one of the music lessons. I saw him walking from class, carrying a saxophone case and looking relaxed, he didn't look embarrased at all. I asked him why he was not at his class, he made excuses: "I asked mr x where the sabonim -taekwondo teacher-was and he didn't know, he told me to go to music class instead". right...
sorry for the long post!!! my question is: what consequence should there be? I said 2 days without screens -movies or videos, computer games are not permitted during the week- but now I think that's too soft. the most screen time he gets during the week is 1 hour. anyone?
what I find important to stress is how wrong it is to lie.
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9 year old skipped taekwondo lesson, lied about it: consequence?
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johnwinstonlennon · 21/10/2015 01:32
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