I'm looking for any advice on my way-more-than-just-fussy DD. I found a few threads on here about resistant eaters but nothing recent and wondered if there are any parents out there with the same problems.
DD is 3. She bf exclusively until 6 months, and continued to bf until 2.5. We followed BLW, she ate everything. It was wonderful and I patted myself on the back for doing such a good job weaning her until about 1.5 when she slowly began to reduce the list of things she'd eat. These days it's just plain carbs (toast, porridge/cereal, crackers, pasta, rice), cheese, fish fingers, apples, bananas. Absolutely no veg. Some foods are sometimes ok, like chicken, raisins, pesto, but then other days are refused.
We took a hard line to begin with but she is very stubborn just like mummy and would rather go hungry if she doesn't like what's on offer. The longest she went was from morning snack at 10am until breakfast the next morning. We were very 'one choice, take it or leave it', 'she'll eat if she's hungry' etc. However she wasnt trying anything new, mealtimes were stressful and I was worried about long term, psychological effects. Sometimes she'd come to the table for dinner saying she was hungry but eat nothing. An hour later I'd ask if she was hungry so I could offer supper before bed, and she'd then tell me she wasn't hungry to avoid the confrontation. It just felt wrong and a great way to encourage disordered eating.
So now we just ask her what she wants and give it to her. It's a limited list of choices, and very far from healthy but mealtimes are a much happier affair, she isnt going hungry, and hopefully one day she'll decide to move onto other foods.
This has turned into a longer post than I meant it to be, but is there anyone else out there with DC like this? Any words of wisdom or success stories of fussy eater turned foodies?
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Resistant eaters - anyone any experience?
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Lookslikerain · 14/08/2015 21:52
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