My 3-4 year old dd is intelligent,imaginative,creative and on the go all the time,. We've always had trouble with hitting/kicking me and the time out in her room for two mins and then talking about feelings and making up always worked. Now it isn't. I make it clear i love her no matter how badly she behaves, but now she is pushing bounderies to my limit. In the car she escaped from her carseat and was like a wild animal, hitting and biting and scratching me.
When i put her in her room she wees on the rug.
I have tried to be consistent. She has become quite clingy and bossy and wants to sleep in my bed (i'm a lone parent). She seems to want reassurence that i'm there for her, but hurts me or pushes me. I feel like that gap, where the other parent would take over but that i have to power on through, is weakening. I have to pop her in front of cbeebies whilst i do chores, or just have a break. What is she asking of me?
She's not like this at nursery, just me.
Nothing has changed in circumstances. She sees her dad one overnight a fortnight, and doesn't talk about what she does there.I am no contact. I talk positively about her visits, and as far as i can see she has a nice time, if a bit guarded when she returns.
I don't know what to do next.
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3 nearly 4 yrs old dd hitting biting me and escaping from car seat
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ooarmehearties · 03/08/2015 09:57
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