My ds is 4 and is starting school in September. We have had some behavioural issues with him in the past and he will be soon undergoing assessment to see if he may have a social communication disorder. One of his 'things' is about clothing - he hates any new clothing at all (he had a 30 minute flip out yesterday about me suggesting he wear a new pair of pants!). He is just not going to wear his school uniform. We have already bought it but he still currently refuses to even look at it or touch it, I gave him some of his soon to be school socks to wear this morning (without calling them that) and they got hidden somewhere in the house! I can't work out if he has sensory issues, if he is scared of new things, or if he is just stubborn! I have gotten him involved in doing washing/ drying/ tidying away his clothes but with the uniform it is not helping yet. I have spoken to his school, they have suggested doing some trial runs before his start date - but I know that that is just not going to work. I don't think I have the physical/ mental to strength to hold him down to force the clothes on which is what will end up happening- even on a trial run. He is a very sensitive child, I hate the idea of his first few days/ weeks at school to be defined by this issue. PLease, has anyone else had to deal with anything like this - what did you do? I just don't know where to start...
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How can I get my 4 year old to wear his school uniform?
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