I have a feeling DS has pathological demand avoidance and find his tantrums very difficult (he's just 4) I thought we'd keep an eye on it when he starts school to see if school find any issue and can pursue help if they do. He finds groups very hard.
But in the meantime is there anything I can do as I've suddenly realised how exhausted I am and finding it very hard to parent him as he fights almost everything. He gets very angry and very high maintenance as will never play on his own!!