DD has always been quirky. She's very creative and though that might sound a bit pretentious, she really is. She loves clothing and always has...often makes bits to wear...tops and so on...or customises other things...but she makes a concerted effort to be like nobody else in terms of outfits.
I worry that she'll be bullied because of it...I'm not talking Emo styles or anything so acceptable...but wearing just "odd" outfits...mismatched clothing...high pigtails with lace from the Haberdashers tied in them...a Tinkerbell backpack when all her friends are trying their best to look grown up and carry "ladies bags" and follow teen fashions.
I worry...I find myself saying "do you think that it's a bit too much to wear three bows in your hair today? Maybe one will be better?"
And yet then I feel bad for quashing her....she'll literally wear 3 bows...one massive one...and some odd assortment of clothing...and a handbag or her Tinkerbell backpack....odd socks and weird shoes...she saves up and buys her own choices....or DH lets her pick strange stuff when he goes out with her
If she were 17 and lived in London it would be perfectly acceptable I'm sure...but she's just turned 11 and lives in a suburban town in the NW!
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Letting "rebel" DD aged 11 be herself in terms of fashion?
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TheHouseOnBellSt · 03/07/2015 12:28
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