Has anyone experienced this?
My daughter is 8 (year 3), Ever since my husband and I seperated last year (divorce happening) she has struggled with all sorts. She isn't coping at school - she feels bullied by 2 girls she has had problems with on and off for 2 years, but also gravitates towards them which makes things hard when talking to teacher about it,
she struggles at home with her younger brother lashing out at her when things don't go his way , and then she struggles with him getting more attention when I'm working with him to improve his behaviour...
She struggles at her dad's (living with his mum at the moment) because she is too soft, there isn't enough places for them all to sit in the lounge which is normally ok when they are running around / playing, but of an evening when younger brother is calming down for bed she ends up with nowhere to sit and pretends she is ok with it, she doesn't cope with Granny trying to tell her to be different in little ways too (just things like holding knife and fork another way)
so in short - life is hard for her right now, she isn't coping. Last night she told me she wished she was dead so she didn't have to worry all the time. I've been in to talk to the teacher this morning, she has already promised me she isn't in the same class as the girls next year, she is arranging for daughter to see ELSA (some kind of emotional support lady) today - she has seen her lots this year....
Teacher also mentioned that her focus is all over the place -she isn't working anywhere near her best ability, hardly working at all by the sound of it
I have her dad coming over tonight to talk too, but she is a people pleaser - she pretends everything is fine and this upset builds up inside her.
I'm so worried for her, and just not sure what more I can do to help her!
Any advice will be massively appreciated
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8 year old DD seemingly falling apart - help!
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OohMrDarcy · 03/07/2015 11:10
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