DH and I have recently become aware of our 5 year old DD telling some porkies which when we have "found her out" have sat her down and explained that she should always tell the truth, otherwise people will stop believing her and if she want's something to be "real" then she just needs to tell us that, rather than fibbing.
However, last night, a friend of mine told me that my DD had told her some weeks ago that she used to have a 2 year old sister called Laura but she was in a hit and run accident and had died . DD has mentioned this to my friend on at least 3 occasions but one time she said that her "daddy was the driver who knocked over her sister"
DH and I cannot understand why she would tell such a story. She's apparently also told another mum at the school this story too, who believed her. I'm really shocked that my DD can come out with a story like this but I've no idea why she's done it. She's a very happy and normal 5 year old, she does have a 2 year old sister but she doesn't know anyone called Laura, or any 2 year old that died by being run over. I'm wondering whether she'd heard something on the news which is where she got the idea from.
I dont know how to deal with this. She's told 2 fairly fat lies in the last 3 weeks (one in which I rang the school to complain about because I completely believed what she told me!)
Clearly she has a very active imagination but could this be leading to something more serious unless we nip it in the bud now?
Any advice please mumsnetters as I'm quite worried .
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Don't know how to deal with my 5 year old TELLING A SERIOUS LIE
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NottsMum · 17/11/2006 09:26
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