Hi folks,
I haven't posted here for years, but today I think I need to dip into a broader pool for some wisdom.
My eight year old son has specific language impairment, and although he's able to function very well with his peers, sometimes there are some slight issues over what is appropriate when. He's a smart little thing, exceeding all the averages academically.
A few weeks ago, I was stopped at the school gate by the deputy head, who had been approached by the speech therapist. "Oh good, they're talking to each other for a change" I thought, then she continued. The speech therapist had come to her with some concerns as the child had started talking to her about bunny suicides.
Yes, I did. After listening to him laugh like a drain for half an hour in Waterstones, I gave in and bought it for his birthday and he was chuffed. I took the time to explain that other grown-ups might think it too sick and twisted for a child his age, and that I was trusting him to not talk about it at school, especially with adults looking after him. Clearly he felt a bit too chummy with the speech therapist and forgot himself.
So I thought I was in the clear when he promised again to keep his mouth shut, and I did my best to apologise to the deputy head who had no sense of humour about it whatsoever.
Some of you will be turning purple right now and calling me all the names under the sun. And I totally get you. However, you've got to understand that this kid just finds this stuff absolutely hilarious. Anything involving comic injury or peril makes him sometimes literally pee his pants. He draws pictures of elaborate machines with stick-girls being fed into them and turned into cupcakes, curry, etc. I am definitely not the instigator in this issue, and his amusement began long before the ill-fated shopping incident.
Since the child is just expressing his natural preference for comedically violent deaths, but does not have any tendency towards violence (in fact, he becomes terribly distressed if he accidentally hurts one of his brothers or friends) should I consider this to be a problem or discipline issue, or just hope that somehow he grows out of it or at least makes us some cash writing marketable books, comedy scripts etc...
Anyone else been in trouble like me?
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8 year old naturally has a really sick sense of humour... discipline issue or not?
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emmaporter · 30/06/2015 16:43
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