My 7yo ds has such a bad attitude, it is driving my DH and I up the wall. He is just not a nice person to be around and my DH says that while he loves ds, he finds it hard to like him a lot of the time.
He is a very competitive child, which I think maybe due to over doing the whole praise thing, have we given him an inflated ego?? I don't see anything wrong with being competitive, as long as you are respecting other people, can be humble and accept that you cannot always win. When at football practice, he shouts at his team mates when they fail to pass or do anything that he deems not good enough, throwing his arms up in the air and rolling his eyes. It's the same when he has friends over. Whether they are playing outside or inside, if things don't go his way, or he doesn't get the answer he wants, it's someone else's fault and this horrible, sarcastic tone comes out. I just keep thinking, if it was someone else's child and I seen them behaving like that, I would just be thinking, what a horrible little boy.
I have tried talking to him about how he should treat people, about respecting others and their opinions, about encouraging his team mates and knowing when to just keep quiet. I have spoken about ways he can calm himself down when he feels himself getting annoyed or angry. We have tried time out and taken things away from him. It all has short term impact and I am at my wits end. I just don't know how to help him to change.
Any suggestions, experiences, help would be much appreciated.
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Do all 7yos have this attitude?
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tiara76 · 14/06/2015 16:38
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