DS is 2.6yo. In lots of ways he is showing signs that he is ready for potty training: knows when he is doing a wee or poo in his potty - tells me as he is doing it.
He is very verbal and sees me and DH on the loo loads and seems to understand what's going on (applauds me when I do a wee!).
I have tried on 2 separate occasions now to have a day in Big Boy Pants after talking about it with him loads, reading pirate Peres potty etc.
On both days I have tried it, he has not managed a single wee in the potty and has only pooed when I put a nappy on him for his nap.
He seems to have no prior awareness that a wee or poo is coming - although he understands what it is when it DOES happen.
He got upset and distressed when he wet his pants.
I tried encouraging him to sit on the potty or loo with a training seat and steps (we have both) every 15 mins "to try" and he just screamed and cried each time and said NO MUMMY. I don't need a wee etc etc. and then wet himself 5 mins later.
I feel instinctively like I shouldn't be picking him up and forcibly holding him on the potty whilst he screams/struggles...surely this would be counterproductive?? He has got to WANT to do it himself, right?
But how on earth can I hope to potty train an extremely wilful boy (not to mention big and strong - he is 91st centime foe height and weight and wears ages 3-4 clothes already and I am 34 weeks pregnant!).
I just feel really down hearted about the whole thing and think I should just give up and resign myself to him still being in nappies at 3 at this rate.
Any advice appreciated
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DS screams when I try to get him to sit on potty/loo
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BotBotticelli · 14/06/2015 09:59
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