Ds2 is nearly 8. He is very anxious and has always been, I think.
He internalises a lot and doesn't like to tell people what he is thinking or feeling.
He has some habits, sort of tics, and also doesn't cope very well with a change to his routines at home - he doesn't have a meltdown or get angry much but he will just find it hard to change what he does.
He's being assessed for ASD at the moment.
This morning he said that every morning, at school, he feels like he's going to be sick, when all the children are being noisy and the teacher says everyone must be silent and do their work.
I'm not sure what it is that upsets him but I do remember this awful feeling from my own childhood in school.
I gave him a hug for ages and told him I understand and that it will pass if he just waits a few minutes.
I don't know what else to do - he is extremely clever and academic, very compliant, does very well at school. I want to support him to be able to stay but am worried that they won't be able to help much, and I don't want to end up HEing him (again - we did it for a year in Y1/2) as I don't feel I can offer very much at home.
Has anyone got any suggestions?
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Ds (7) and anxiety (school related)
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SophieHatters · 10/06/2015 11:15
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