I've just put my 3 year 2 month old in a private nursery. He was always looked after by his grandparents whilst I was at work so has had everything done for him. I have started him on settling in sessions and they have said that he is having trantrums when being told what to do. I said is this not normal? and they said not really for 3 year olds this should have finished in year 2. Ok fine something that may have been amplified as I have just had a new baby so he is playing up more. Also they have said he cannot use a cup correctly or cutlery. I'm starting to feel a bit down about it all as I've always tried my best to encourage him to use his cutlery and he does use it now and again but can be quite stubborn with it. I hate that everytime I pick him up I am being told he "can't do things" like the other children in the nursery. Is this something to worry about? How can I encourage him to do this without tears and tantrums?
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