Hi I'm new to this but don't know what else to do :( i have an 8 year old boy, 10 year old girl and 2 stepchildren (11 & 4) and pregnant (28 weeks) with my last baby!! A little bit about me, I was married for 10 years but split 2 years ago, I have since met and remarried my new husband, only been married 6 weeks. I have a medical condition which is at a criticle stage, (blood clots in my lungs) which has wiped me right out. I was a childminder but have had to stop work for 6 months on Drs orders :(.
The reason for my post is I'm having a nightmare with my 8 year old boy, he is very sensitive and loving but can turn into a wild and angry boy in an instant. I'm scared to ask him to do anything like tidy his room as he just shouts and screams at me. He is making our rather large family a living misery. He argues and shouts at everyone and his behaviour at school has got worse over the last 6 weeks or so. He has more hugs and time then any of the other children in the house and generally wants for nothing (love wise) he is putting an enormous strain on our marriage and my husband has already threatened to leave as he hates him :( I love my little boy more then anything in this world but I'm struggling and in tears on most days. It has got to the point where I'm contemplating him living with his dad, (round the corner) as he's making everyone so unhappy, these thoughts I'm having are breaking my heart. I have tried everything you can imagine to find out what is wrong and encourage good behaviour but nothing works. His stepdad sees the stress its putting me under and then reacts by shouting and telling him some home truths, this upsets me also as I just want to scoop him up and give him a cuddle, but I know I can't as his behaviour needs to be sorted. Any Advice or help to point me in the right direction will be great fully recieved as I'm at my lowest point right now :( xx thank you xx
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Tink76 · 13/02/2015 10:51
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