Hi,
Not been on here for a while, but hoping to gain a little perspective.
My eldest son is 4 and has settled well into school. He can be challenging at times but not that I would say is particularly different from other boys. I deal with things as best I can, particularly as I have found myself caring for my two boys full time since I spilt with my ex 2 years ago.
I will get to the point. Around November last year my son went through a short phase of running off ahead of me on the school pick up. One particular day he ran with a friend and they kept going, both of them ran past the school and onto the estate at the top. The Friends dad was calling his son who eventually stopped. I began shouting out of frustration because he still ran for a minute or so. I managed to catch up with him and told him how wrong it was for him to run off and when mummy calls him he must always come back.
Since that day I have managed to change this behaviour by telling him to stay close for his safety and also changing our route.
The day after it happened the mother and father of the friend appeared to snub me and be less friendly. We have talked about that day and I have tried to make my concerns clear. This afternoon at pick up I overheard Dad of the friend saying to his son not to run off with L (my son). I couldn't believe what I heard.
Maybe I should have posted in Aibu. I have taken this to heart. It was a one off, they both ran off and the other child didn't stop for his dad, is that our fault? I feel as if they have labelled him. I understand there will be times you will be mortified as a parent but who do they think they are?
Please help me gain some perspective here.
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Running off, left a bad taste!
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PuffinPie · 09/01/2015 21:17
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