Hello im not sure wether its me being wierd (which is what im made out to be at home if i mention things like this) but there are so many issues in our house alot in my eyes stem from my partner of 5 years 11 yr old son, so many to list right now but 1 today which happens a lot my partner sees it as normal i dont! Shes at work right now & i get home from work before her every day but usually half hour to an hour after her 11 yr old son who she allows to have run of the house even after little tgings like falling asleep with a lamp on his bed filling the house with smoke nasty smoke! We have 3 children between us the youngest boy 3 is both our child the 2 eldest are hers, anyway even after that scary experience at 2am in the morning im not allowed to say my exact thoughts on it as im mean about it!... instead nothing is said at all just carry on not a care of what could of happened! &following that i got home a couple weeks later seeing 3 11 yr olds bowling out of hour front door as her son says hey the electrics gone wierd & gone off! Spilt a pint of water over extension lead sockets he was just off to the shop to tell his mum anyway i sorted any danger & she returned home a few hours after again not a word was even mentioned!...well sorry guys thats just 2 things in 2 weeks but a thing that goes on for months is the lad goes through everything in the house looking maybe for his wifi thsts been taken away usually or mobile, i find it strange the child goes through things in our bedroom underwear drawers etc theres important paper work also private! Things ok im not stupid probably every body did this at some point but this is years & its not even hidden its like being robbed cupboards & drawers all left open things moved around lights left on its not even an attempt to cover his tracks or hide hes been through our stuff! If i want to say anything about these things its me thats different or always moaning or a control freak! Does any of this seem normal to other ppl? Sorry for lack of writing skills here im kind of ranting so probably all over the place :-)
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