My 4 year old is driving me totally crazy and I am really at the end of my tether with how to deal with him. He's always been super active, impulsive etc and can't stay still for a single second. I am starting to suspect adhd.
A typical morning would be wake up, run downstairs and have a huge whinge and moan about having to eat breakfast. Getting dressed involves getting him out from under his bed several times, trying to stop him talking and moving long enough to brush his teeth, trying to stop him kicking his wee-filled pull up across the bathroom at someone, persuading him to get dressed (trying to make him do this himself as encouraged by school). Everything you ask him to do is met with angry shouting and whinging and crying.
He literally cannot play alone for a single second. If we are at home and I try to make a cup of tea/ put the washing in/ do an online shop he whines and whines that he wants me to play with him. When I do he constantly tells me I've done it wrong (cars in the wrong place, making the wrong ambulance noise/ building the imaginary wall wrong etc).
He's recently started taking absolutely ages on loo. This has now turned into wanting to go repeatedly within a few minutes (literally as soon as he's off the loo he decides he wants to go again). I'm taking him to the docs this morning in case he has a UTI.
Other parents we meet say he's like a cyclone/ whirlwind etc so it's not just normal behaviour. He's literally 100 miles an hour from dawn til dusk and now with added anger and whinging. He can be so sweet (he's lovely when ill or sleepy!) but the loveliness is getting lost.
Has anyone else had this? How did you cope? Is there somewhere one can get proper advice on this? Am wondering if I can self refer to an ed psych.
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How to deal with super demanding 4 year old
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Whyisthissohard · 02/01/2015 09:17
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