I have thought for a while that our dd was struggling with some issues,not really her sexuality but certainly her gender,it has been since the age of 3 until now (she is 9) we are used to her and don't think much about it any more. And have always been supportive of anything she does.
I don't want to pigeon hole my child too early on of course but I am now wondering if she may need some external input ( mainly In case she worries about upsetting us and therefore not completely opening up) or would this approach make her feel like an outcast.is it a conversation I could have?
She is very anxious and still wets the bed at night too we have a referral for this too.
She has always dressed as a boy,played with bits things,severely freaks out at the thought if wearing ANYTHING remotely girlie,even if it is kind of punky funky type clothing it's a firm NO.she plays all boys sports,always has done ( she may be put forward for gifted and talented in this area ) all but 2 or 3 of her friends are boys and this is where she is happy.does anyone have experience of this kind of thing,I really don't see it changing,when asked she says she likes it and often will call herself a boys name all day.i am more concerned about society's acceptance or should I say non- acceptance of this kind if thing especially where we are in a rural location heading in to high school......any advice welcome
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9yo girl dysphoria ??i am nearly certain now even though was slated on here before for even thinking it!!
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suntansally · 18/12/2014 16:59
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