Wondering if anyone can offer me any advice or experience re my dd who was 4 in oct. My H & I separated back in October, he has moved out of the family home. I've tried to keep things as open as possible for my dd but in a way that she can understand so we have said that daddy & mummy aren't living together anymore, I've reassured her best I can, kept routines going as much as possible.
She has been up & down, it's not really helped with her dad being quite inconsistent about contacting her- always saying he's too busy or had a meeting,but he does have her every other weekend.
However in the last couple of weeks there have been a few things going on for Dd that I'm not sure if they are all related but they have all happened at once. So sleeping badly, having nightmares- I think recently on the back of H taking her
to see the paddington film &
her being a bit scared by it but then also asking questions about death(no-one we know has died recently & again this could be the film).
I'm at a bit of a loss as to what to do now - so many questions which are related to the separation but could also be her age. Are there any good resources out there? Or anyone had similar with their DC's? You just want to make it all ok for them don't you
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Dd affected after separation - nightmares & feeling afraid
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lizardqueenie · 16/12/2014 22:38
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