Dd is a bright and sensitive little girl, and struggling at the moment with feelings about me and her dad living apart (we split when she was 1 but she struggles going from one home to another sometimes).
She has however over the last few weeks become incredibly defiant. If I count to 3 she turns her back and sticks her tongue out, or repeats '1,2, 3' while staring me down. At home she gets an instant time out- if she won't go to her room I just go to the other room and leave her until she is ready to apologise, so.mostly at home things are controllable.
However, when we are out it is a different story. I don't drive, and usually she walks everywhere. But she has started melting down at the smallest.thing. Yesterday I was cold and.tired and had been to the gp- it took us 1.5 hours to get home, and.it is 300m away. She lay on the floor, kicked me, screamed, tried to claw at my eyes and rip my glasses off if I touched her. She was obviously really distressed, and I want to be able to help, but she won't let me, and lying in the street for hours is just not practical. I have some health issues that cause pain and fatigue, and often really need to get home.
I am only 5' tall and weight 52 kilos, she is 3 foot and weighs 22, I can't physically overpower or carry her if she is fighting me.
We've just stopped going out now, because I can't handle her. I guess we could get a pushchair, but I don't just want to strap her down and push her around screaming, which is what will happen. HELP!
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Tackling tantrums when out, dd driving me crazy!
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IfItsNotOK · 29/11/2014 10:11
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