My DS (my first) was born via emcs nearly 10 weeks ago, we were in hospital for a week and both needed a course of iv antibiotics, so not a great start! He's mixed fed and has been incredibly fussy and unsettled since birth. The midwives even took him off me two nights in the hospital to settle him as they said I had to at least get some rest to recover.
At home the crying persisted so I went to the GP who said it sounded like silent reflux. We've elevated his cot, we keep him upright after feeds and we tried feeding little and often. This had little impact and we had a night nanny for 2 nights who told us to stop the little feeds as we weren't feeding him enough and he was crying from hunger and colic.
So we added infacol and formula top ups to every meal. He's improved as he's got older but now seems to get very over tired, but he doesn't like to sleep in the day and will spend hours resisting sleep and will only nap for 30 mins at a time. He often wakes up crying which I assume must be due to wind. More than this though is the fact he just seems to find everything upsetting. He's happy immediately after a feed but will cry for hours the rest of the time.
Whenever we take him anywhere he screams, so whenever we see drs or health visitors they comment on it and ask if he's always like this Today we had to abandon a baby swim class 10 mins in as he just wouldn't stop screaming. I felt so sad watching the other babies happily bouncing in the water. I feel like my boy is unhappy all the time and I'm just a crappy mum because I can't fix it and could even be causing it.
I'm seeing the GP and HV tomorrow and we have tried cranial osteopathy already, another appointment due on wednesday. Everyone said he would sleep after the first session but he cried all the way home and had a rubbish night. Sorry for such a long post, I just don't know what else to do or who to ask for help. Thank you for reading, any suggestions appreciated.
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Feel like I'm failing my 9 week old
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picknmiss · 23/11/2014 17:01
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