Hi ladies, my DS is 17 months and seems to have a habit lately of hitting me or DH if he doesn't get his way or throwing toys when he loses patience. it's driving me round the bend and would like to know your ways you have dealt with it?
Example situation this morning, after him trying to shove a toy recorder in my mouth several times (after me playing some marvellous tunes on it and me saying "no thank you" in the happiest calmest voice I could at 6:45am with no coffee in me, he then shoved it really hard, cut my gum and when I said no! He then has a mini tantrum and tries to hit me.
He will play with a shape sorter and if the shape doesn't fit it gets launched across the room. He has no brothers/sisters but is gentle with other children (usually)
Saying "no" firmly seems to make no difference he will just go to swipe you again. I have tried taking the thrown/bashed toy off him and "saying we don't throw toys". DH does a 'pretend cry' when he hits him, to make him see its not nice, he doesn't seem to care. Too young for naughty step? Time out?
It's really bloomin hard when you get hit, cut or whacked, to not get pissed off' or is it just me? I feel like I'm supposed to be this super calm Disney/mr Tumble character but actually I wanna scream its 6:45am on a Saturday and my mouth is bleeding and your the one crying aaahhhhh!
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How do you deal with being hit/cut/whacked?
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Millie3030 · 22/11/2014 08:47
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