DD (5) told me at bedtime that nobody in her class will play with her except this one boy (who I think is also a kid they won't play with). i suggested she just try talking to them and she said they just make stupid noises at her when she does. i sort of know there are these issues, eg we were at the swimming pool at the weekend and a little girl from her class arrived. dd was really pleased and wanted to play with her, but the other girl switched to the other pool as soon as she realised dd was there. i hadn't really realised that dd was feeling it so keenly, but she has been getting upset about things for the last week, so i think she is now really picking it up.
i know i can't really do anything about the behaviour, it's not directly bullying as such, but my heart is breaking for my poor dd and i guess i am just wondering if anyone has any advice on how dp and i can support her at home, what to say (since 'they're just horrible little gits' doesn't seem very constructive).
we are taking her to see a child psychologist in a couple of weeks to have her assessed, she has trouble focusing at times and we want to make sure we aren't missing anything she could be helped with, but in the interim, i would appreciate any advice, because she really sounded like she wanted me to tell her what to do when she told me, and i don't actually know.
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so what do I say to my nearly six year old when she says 'nobody will play with me'?
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NomNomDePlum · 11/11/2014 20:47
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