Thinking about changing our speech therapist.
We've only had her for 3 sessions since the assessment where she dx my dd(4) as being on the 2nd percentile for receptive speech.
I had pointed out during the test that my dd was "not engaged" for a portion of the test and was just giving the same answer every time to elicit a reaction. She ignored this.
She is now trying to teach my dd stuff she already knows well, and during the 3rd session she worked on the assumption my dd didn't understand gender pronouns where in fact she just doesn't agree that all girls have to have long hair and wear pink clothes. We don't in our house. My hair is above my ears.
I explained this to speechie. She then tried to "teach" my dd that all girls wear pink and have long hair and that boys don't because "that's how this game works".
She said "surely she's noticed that other girls in her class wear pink" I had to point out that (for dd) having autism means she does NOT observe her peers and that in any case, I specifically teach her that she can wear any colour she likes and that boys can too so please don't continue with this game. She did.
My dd's issues are with pragmatic speech and social skills and this woman is wasting my time and money teaching her basic speech, and confusing her with irrelevant gender assumptions. Also she is is using hand signs for directional words and I'm having to "untrain" my dd when she gets home.
Half the time dd hasn't a clue what the woman is expecting from her, cos she's waving her arms around saying "the doll is....." and then pausing while doing her handsigns, waiting for the words "beside the box" where if she just said "full sentence please", like I've told her to, my dd would respond correctly. Because, guess what, she already knows the sodding words, it's the sign that's confusing her.
A new joint speechie and OT just started up at my dd's childcare and ive talked to them and they sound great.
I know this "misfit" is as much about me and my opinions, as about my dd, so before I give her the flick, does anyone have any input, should I give her another chance, or is 3 sessions + the bungled assessment enough to move on?
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Speech therapist not a good fit
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FridayJones · 08/11/2014 21:17
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