My 3yo DD has developed a habit of telling grandma she doesn't like her. It only happens when either me or DH is around. If we are busy or she's with grandma only, she will happily play with grandma. I take it it means when we are around she prefers to play with us only and doesn't want grandma to join in?
We haven't done anything to stop it because grandma doesn't mind at all.
But today she did this to a girl she played with at nursery! Obviously I'm horrified. Luckily the girl's mum is not around.
What would you suggest we should do? We plan to tell her what she said is very mean and hurt the feelings of the person. But do we have to acknowledge that she might not like the person? We don't want to just stop her talking about this sort of thing to us in private in case she might be bullied. We want in that case she felt she could come to us. How do you strike the balance for this?
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3yo telling friends and families she doesn't like them
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TwoLittleTerrors · 02/11/2014 11:23
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