My friend's child has recently (about 6 weeks ago) started attending nursery two days per week, nursery have raised some concerns about his development but my friend isn't quite sure whether their concerns are justified or if her DS is still settling in at The nursery.
She has recently been given an 'on entry assessment' for him but we don't feel it really does him justice, the concerns are that he is behind in several areas of development, not potty trained yet (no interest in doing so) and shows no interest in interacting with other children.
He is very highly strung and cries A LOT when he gets dropped off, my friend phones the nursery during the day to find out how he is getting on and is always told that he settled within 10 minutes and that he is playing happily.
He will be starting school in September 2014 so the nursery are trying to prepare all of the children for school and have mentioned that he is unable (and sometimes unwilling) to attempt to put on his own shoes and coat. Is this really an issue for a 3 year old?
Friend is happy with the nursery, likes the staff in the pre-school room and feels that they are being very supportive but she's quite upset about the report which seems to show that developmentally he is quite behind in some areas.
How can she bring this up with him without coming across as being in denial or just being precious? She lacks confidence so it's not easy!
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ColgateSmile · 30/10/2014 19:24
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