My 8yr old DS has always had periods at school of getting into trouble for silly things like shouting out / talking and occasionally for seemingly thoughtless acts like pushing or saying silly things (usually when he first gets a new teacher). At home he has to be nagged to do the day to day stuff (brush your teeth, let's get our shoes on, can you stop throwing the ball inside, etc) but we've always put this down to boyish behaviour, as other mums have had similar complaints. However, his teacher this year has said that his shouting out /silly behaviour is the worst she's come across and she's tried various positive reward systems/ punishments to no avail. She put forward that he might have ADHD. I work as a HLTA in his school and don't really have any issues at all with him when I'm teaching his class, but I suppose that could be because I'm there! Watching him at swimming lessons and football practice, I'd say he was no worse than some of the other boys. We've tried rewards / reminder cards on his desk / removing privileges and although sometimes they work a little, nothing long term happens.
Im worried that this is just going to spiral and even thought he is one of the most intelligent children in his class he is going to majorly underachieve and always have a bad reputation at school.
Help! Ideas please!
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8yr old DS - teacher thinks he may have ADHD - advice please!
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Ibby6 · 28/10/2014 19:27
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