DS1 is 21mo for the LAST YEAR every single nappy change has been a total nightmare. He is so strong willed and boisterous and he just HATES being 'made' to do anything he doesn't want to do, ie. lie down and have a nappy changed.
I use pull ups to make it a bit easier so I can change him standing up (when it's just wee) but he HAS to lie down when there's poo, otherwise it would just go everywhere, I won't be able to clean him properly etc etc.
But everytime I try to change him he runs off round the house.When i catch him and try to lie him down he rolls off, twists, and runs away so quickly, and he's so strong now. I have to wrestle him to the ground, it's exhausting and i feel like a total failure for not being on top of this by now :( He has been like this since he could roll/crawl but now he's a big strong boy, 98th centile for height and weight and I am realy struggling to 'restrain' him. I hate using that word!! It sounds totally inappropriate but I just don't know what else to do. It's really getting me down.
His language and understanding is very good, he definitely understands what I want hime to do, but he just REFUSES. I am probably extrapolating too far but I am getting really worried about how I am going to effecgtively set boundaries and parent him as he gets older, if i can't even get this right :(
Please can someone help with some tips? Or do I just have to keep wrestling him until he's ready to potty train??
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at my wits end with toddler nappy changes
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BotBotticelli · 03/09/2014 14:13
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