DS is nearly 4 and we are struggling with him using the toilet.
He's been out of nappies for a year (he was quite late to potty train) and is about 95% there with dry nights. He refuses point blank to use the toilet until actually starting to wet himself - we've tried everything including bribery but to no avail. Left to his own devices he will go for a wee twice a day and do a poo at one of the wee trips.
I'd be inclined to leave him to it but for the fact that when he is clearly desperate for a wee, his behaviour declines. Her gets silly, loses his concentration/attention span, starts throwing things, shouting, is very obviously trying to distract himself in any way possible from the fact he is crossing his legs and jiggling. Suggestions that he go to the toilet are met with furious rage and shouting that he DOESNT NEED A WEE Picking him up and taking him results in kicking and screaming, followed by refusal to pull pants down - we can and do force the issue sometimes, ie if we are about to go out, but this feels wrong.
WTF is this about, anyone??
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DS (4 this week) and total toilet refusal/denial!
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frolicsandfiddledeedees · 05/08/2014 13:33
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