Not a big issue, but I'm just wondering what 'normal' table manners are for a 5 year old, having received a list of "expected table manners" from the school which DS (my eldest, so I've nothing to compare him with their than a vegetable throwing toddler) will be starting at after the summer, which seems ambitious to me (and I'm wondering if we need to spend time working on this, or if it's just a wish list which the school will expect children to work towards).
School specify that children are to use correct cutlery and cut their own food. DS uses a knife and fork (and has done for years) but I will still often give him a spoon, which I let him use for food like baked beans or peas.
He will attempt to cut his own food, and manages fine with things like potatoes, but I still cut his meat for him. He uses his fingers to eat things like pizza (but then so do I ). He sometimes uses his fingers to push food onto his fork, rather than a knife (although he knows that he shouldn't, really).
He knows not to speak with his mouth full, but frequently does. He know not to put his elbows on the table during mealtimes, but frequently does. He is good at asking to leave the table at the end of the meal, rather than just getting down. He is not good at asking for things to be passed to him rather than just stretching. He still spills "sloppy" food quite a lot (e.g. soup).
Sound ok for a 5 year old? The school's list makes it sound like they are expecting polished adult table manners. Which I would love him to have, but are not the reality. I really just want to make sure that he seems OK for 5! I've always been more concerned about him eating well and not being fussy than I have about the finer details of mealtimes.
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5 year old - 'normal' table manners?
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Forkandknife · 17/07/2014 19:20
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