Our 16 year old son is frightening us.
I work away from home and have had to call the police on him as he was hitting his mother and they gave him a chat.
He has only been to school for 3 months this year and we can't make him go. We are expecting a prosecution from the county council re this but he won't get out of bed and swears at us and is violent. He is also bigger then us so forcing him is impossible.
He is sending abusive messages to school mates and the school has intervened with these.
He has held a carving knife to my neck.
He has stabbed all of the doors in the house so you can see through them. You can put your head through some of the holes. He has kicked holes in walls. He breaks things deliberately . A dining room chair, a new laptop, headphones.
He tries to torture the dog.
He has started urinating without using the toilet, at first it was outside against the wall, now it is inside.
Child mental health keep cancelling the appointments they have made over the last six months and our doctor refuses to help as he has been referred to CAMS. CAMS just say call the police of we are in danger. Mental health charities and advice lines refer us back to CAMS
I want to call the police on him when he is violent but my wife won't let me saying it will ruin our life.
This morning we were woken up to more banging around the house and found more damage including a broken kettle.
When we ask what is going on he just lashes out and calls us C words.
Help and advice pleaded!
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jamesk0001 · 07/06/2014 11:12
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