My 4yr old keeps talking about the 'bad man' asking what he looks like, what colour is he, and what happens if he takes her. Husband and I told her the bad man (or woman) can be any colour and that she should never talk to strangers. We've told her that if a stranger offers you anything then you run away, if they grab you then scream, hit, bite, and scratch.
When we're out she will point to someone and say 'that's a stranger right?' and I say, "yes it is'.
Today, however, she actually drew a picture of the 'bad man' with a drawing of herself next to him with a sad face. She then drew mummy and daddy with sad faces and said 'this is mummy and daddy after the bad man takes me'. I then drew mummy and daughter with a smiley face and scribbled out the bad man.
She is a very happy girl, very positive and full of energy! I'm not sure where she's picked this up but can anyone tell me if this is just a faze? Should I continue to assure her the bad man won't take her or, well I don't know at this point! I just don't want her to be scared.
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4 yr old keeps talking about the 'bad man'
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Lilsmummy · 29/05/2014 20:28
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