dd won't eat anything.
she never has eaten much (I'm alarmed by now much earlier dd2 wears her hand-me-down outfits) but now her paediatrician has referred her to a nutritionist because she is too small. She is nearly 6 and when I try to buy her school skirts even the 4-year-old ones hang off her diddy little waist.
She has some feeding problems due to her cerebral palsy but the last time I spoke to her chewing and swallowing therapist she said she was doing really well, and said that maybe 20% of her unwillingness to eat was down to the disability, and 80% was behavioural.
She is a very clever little girl and I think that food has become An Issue. She never ate or drank much, as I said (when she was a baby we used to force water down her with a syringe when it was really hot and she had had nothing to drink) but now she looks at her food and pushes it away without even having a spoonful.
We have tried everything at least once. Stickers. Ignoring it and just bringing on the next course. Praise for good eating. Naughty steps. All sitting down happily for a meal and chatting and just blanking her shenanigans. Trying to talk to her about it. But it gets worse and worse. She barely eats or drinks anything at all. This morning I just left her at the table with her milk (she refused her Ready Brek straight off) for an hour until she drank it. I told her that she wouldn't be ready to go to her grandmas until she had drunk her milk and got dressed. It worked eventually after many tears and everyone's morning being ruined by it, but I don't have time to do this when she's back at school.
I am at the point where I have no patience with this 6-year charade any more and I can't see a way out. When she was at nursery I used to pay extra so they would give her lunch - I didn't need the childcare but I just couldn't face three meals a day. I always feed her things that she likes and that she can easily eat; I give her a good, varied, tasty diet but it all ends in the bin. I can see going to this nutritionist and him saying 'you need to give her this and this' and watching her push it away again. I'm also aware that dd2 could soon see what is happening and join the 'game', and she is a great eater.
can anyone help me with a way out of this? I'm just getting completely past it.
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okay then all you fab parenting types - Cappuccino is on her KNEES asking you to help
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Cappuccino · 30/08/2006 14:04
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