6yrold daughter deteriorating behaviour help please

[nevertoooldforindie]

hi. I'd really like some suggestions and advice.
My gorgeous daughter is in year 1at school. Everything at home is a battle. From getting dressed to going to bed, she doesn't listen and has to be told/asked over and over she is very head strong and it's difficult to get her to change activities from what she wants to do to what she needs to do. Both her and her little sister are obsessed with my dh their dad. They always want to be with him and for him to put them to bed etc. this evening has ended with dd 1 having a hysterical tantrum as he was going out to his exercise class after spending half an hour reading her stories.
I've read a few similar posts and a few books have been mentioned, which are recommended? Or are there any professionals that could help?
I can't remember a day where we haven't had tantrums or tears and its breaking my heart

[SilkStalkings]

The Explosive Child by Ross W Greene. Will help a LOT!

[nevertoooldforindie]

Thanks silk ill get that is it something you found useful personally