DD is 21 mths and her behaviour can only be described as crazy at the moment. I cant control her tantrums at all and she spends most of the day disgruntled, unhappy and hassling me about one thing or another. She cant sit still for more than half a second and as soon as the buggy stops shes shouting OUT OUT! My in laws have really tied me up in knots by taking her out without the buggy and walking her holding hands so now she wont get in the buggy because she expects to walk everywhere but 2 mins down the road she wants carrying. Her and I are butting heads all day and she gets put in the "thinking corner" several times a day at the moment for hitting me or just generally being naughty and badly behaved. I just feel like she hates me at the moment and is so much more difficult for me than any one else. Im a sahm btw.
Shes not interested in any toys or books and her past times are either harassing me for c beebies or generally demanding or shouting at me. Ive put her on a reward chart and im using the "catching others being good" thing which helps and ive gone sticker crazy, offering her stickers for good behaviours but they are soon forgotten before the next difficult behaviour arises.
Im finding it even more difficult to keep my calm because im so stressed out and walking around on the verge of tears most of the time because my dad is terminally ill and is coming to end of things, being in the last few days of his life. Ive got a permanent feeling of dread in my heart and a lump in my throat because hes suffering so awfully and doesn't deserve to be going through this. DH is a bit useless and not being overly supportive in the emotional stakes. Had a massive fall out with him this morning and he hung up on me. He just doesn't seem to see how hard im finding all of this.
Sorry its just a rant but I feel like im drowning at the moment and I don't know what to do about it all.
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LittlePink · 28/03/2014 13:45
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