I have a lovely friend who has four DCs. She isn't very confident about her parenting despite the fact that she does a pretty awesome job under difficult circumstances.
She is constantly stressing that DC4 (3) won't eat. He won't sit at the table and refuses most meals.
She uses snacks to manage her children a lot of the time, i.e. every time she thinks they need to be distracted. Therefore her youngest is stuffed full of biscuits, brunch bars, bananas, crisps, all day to keep him busy/quiet/happy.
This seems to be a bit of a blind spot for her and it's really alien to me. We have never done snacks between meals at all. I've tried commenting on how my DCs wouldn't eat later if they had all those snacks but it falls on deaf ears.
I wouldn't bother about this but she is getting into food battles with him and it's making her really miserable. His weight is healthy but she can't seem to see past the fact that he won't eat at mealtimes so he is missing out on food.
I need some MNers' ideas on how to help her see what she's doing without shooting her down in flames which would be only too easy to do.
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Poppinjay · 23/03/2014 23:42
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