My daughter has recently started getting increasingly cross when she hurts herself while she's playing- instead of expressing pain she expresses anger and denial that she has hurt herself and often in my direction. She looks right at me and screams 'NO!! I DID NOT HURT MYSELF, I DIDN'T!' (almost as if being hurt means her fun is over) and runs off in the opposite direction in tears! She is a lovely affectionate girl and loves cuddles and kisses so this doesn't seem to fit in with her personality! How do you think I should encourage her to be comforted? Do you think I should force her to come and have a cuddle or just let her soothe herself?? Its horrible not being able to comfort her when she's in pain! Maybe just a phase…
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Nearly 4yo gets cross with me when she hurts herself!
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greenshoot19 · 19/03/2014 15:45
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