Hi all. I am hoping for some help/guidance on how to deal with my 6 year old ds who has been having terrible tantrums at least once a day for the last few weeks. Sometimes I can see a reason for his anger or frustration but at others I have no idea what has started him off. I struggle with my anger at times and have discussed this with him and said maybe we can help each other.
I've read one book with him on how to deal with his anger, and have just started reading another. Some adult books/people advise ignoring him, others say to tell him I understand his anger but that the way he is handling it is not acceptable.
My mum ignored my tantrums and I grew up to self harm and have issues with my anger, an issue that I am working on. I know that if he has never had a healthy role model for anger then he will not know how to behave when he feels angry. But I am lost as to what to do. This morning he had me in tears as it really seems he hates me sometimes. I feel like such a failure.
I also have a 3 year old ds, and he is witnessing his brothers behaviour.
Thanks in advance for your help
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Tantrumming 6 year old
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Emski76 · 19/03/2014 13:08
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