Hi all,
Ive joined mumsnet (im a dad) as I have a problem which im seeking opinion from other parents on.
I have a wonderful 15mth daughter who is always happy, smiling and full of life.
The problem I have is that whenever we go and visit my mum at her house she has real bad seperation anxiety and doesnt play that much. She doesnt really smile and is visibly not confident.
I know this is linked to an incident where my mum and brother started a completely unprovoked arguement with me. I was holding my daughter who was crying with teething. During this arguement my brother even threatened to hit me, telling me to put baby down, etc. My daughter became extremely distressed and I ended up walking out the house.
This matter has all been dealt with within the family (i will never forgive them and they know this). Needless to say my wife was very upset at it and now feels distanced from them.
But now when I go there she is as I describe. She is definitely scared of my brother.
Im trying to rebuild this element of life, and the encouraging cuddles with nanny and uncle seem futile. I accept that kids see things black and white, and maybe this is the long lasting outcome of their actions. And maybe im just hoping for something that will never be.
Ive read parenting books and girl specific ones but none cover it.
Any ideas?
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silverfoxapparently · 16/03/2014 11:49
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