So, DS1 is nearly 4 and absolutely refuses to ever dress up in costumes. Yesterday was "carnival" at his school (we live in Belgium) and he was the only kid in his class who didn't dress up. He enjoyed all the other aspects of the day (including the parade), but absolutely refused to wear any kind of costume - not even a hat! It was the same at Halloween. His teacher came and spoke to me this morning and said he got very quiet when she offered him dressing up clothes from the class, and didn't like trying on the masks they'd made earlier in the week in class. He's the same at home. I ask him if he wants to dress up - he says no - and I can't get him to try and explain what it is he doesn't like about it.
I guess what I want to know is, is this normal? Is he likely to grow out of it? It's true we don't have any dressing up stuff at home, because he's always refused to dress up for things and never plays with that kind of stuff at other people's houses. He's fine with imaginative play and spends hours with his play kitchen, or building dens, or talking with his lego cars and things. Will he miss out on some stage of development if he doesn't "get" dressing up? I read that it's important for developing imagination. And it kind of breaks my heart to see all his little friends dressed up and him shyly (he's normally pretty talkative and outgoing) standing to one side...
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Nearly 4 year old won't do dressing up
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amyboo · 28/02/2014 11:42
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