Hi,
I've posted before about my son and his fussiness when it comes to food. He is just 5 and weighs only 33lbs. he doesn't have a spare pound to lose. I am always trying to "fatten him up" to get him to a healthier weight.
But I think I may be responsible for his fussiness. Since he was weaned he has always been fussy and always been skinny and the doctors have suggested ways of cooking to increase his calorie intake.
So I have became a "short order cook" who cooks him what he wants and I have just realised that a) he is still not gaining weight and b) he is not trying new food.
I've completely cocked up and have decided to try and stop snacks and give him breakfast, lunch, tea and supper only, whilst giving him one thing on his plate he likes and two new things for him to try.
But my worry is that this resulted yesterday in one small pancake for breakfast, two fishfingers at lunch and 1 sausage for tea as he ignored the two new things on his plate. That coupled with no snacks (to make him hungry at meal times) means he had a grand total of about 400 calories.
I feel sick that he is going to lose so much weight that he could end up ill or in hospital if he doesn't eat more soon. Should I go back to the old way where he is having biscuits, cake for snack and short order cooking or continue? I feel that we are such a long way from all sitting down to eat a Sunday roast of a spag bol together that I don't know what to do.
Any advice would be so appreciated.
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5 year old and eating issues.
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SancerreMerlot · 18/02/2014 07:02
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