My 22 month old has entered the world of tantrums. She's even managed to pick a spot in the house where she prefers to go when she's having them - she will go into the kitchen and stand in front of the recycling bins and have an almighty standing-up screamathon for 5 minutes.
I don't like totally ignoring them as I want her to know that I realise she's upset (she doesn't even have them for any particular reason, like us taking something away or not giving her something, so there's really nothing to 'give in' about on our part). I want to pick her up and give her a cuddle but if we try to hug her or anything while she's having a tantrum it will make it 10x worse. So it looks like ignoring her is our only option, which makes me blue.
So please tell me ignoring them is OK, because cuddling or trying to talk to her is not helping. Thank you!
ps - I'm pregnant so hyper-sensitive about everything right now, lest you all think I'm being a wet blanket ;)
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First week of tantrums, have a question
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erikab922 · 16/02/2014 22:08
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