15 mo clingy to mum

[slightlyconfused85]

I've posted this before but its really getting me down. If I am around my dd only wants me, not her daddy who loves her to bits. He has always spent time with her most days since she was a newborn, and if I am not here she is just fine with him and they have a great time. If I am here however she will.not cuddle him, or be with him unless they are playing chase...
Today I am ill and he is looking after her to give me a break. All I can hear is her grizzling and crying for me in the bath. Intermittently she is forgetting and laughing or playing but mostly she is screaming. It's been like this for months now. He is such a kind gentle man I don't understand this and it a strain as at times like tis when I have a throat infection and need rest she won't be with him happily. I know we just have to persist but does anyone have any advice or experience I feel so sad.

[slightlyconfused85]

Ok but is it better to let her have me all the time aloe just let her dad be with her even if there's a lot of crying? Yes it doesn't help I'm feeling ill and all I can hear is u.necessary screaming