This sounds like an odd issue, but since she started school, my slightly shy dd has been negotiating her social world through hugging other children, in particular, a group of girls who she wants to be included by (but isn't). She doesn't do it in any context other than school, but it is clear that the other children don't like it (and I suspect but don't know that another parent has mentioned it). The teacher has given her a 'no hugging' in school rule, but clearly this can't be enforced all the time (in the yard, e.g.). The other kids immediately outp it their hands or say 'no hugging dd' when she approaches. I am worried that she is alienating herself, although in other ways she is doing well. How can I impress on her that she must not do this? She just doesn't seem to get it
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